The God of heaven has given you a natural barometer that applies in most instances of decision-making.
When faced with life’s decisions, notice how easy it is to choose those things, which are considered “wrong”, “unhealthy”, or simply just aren’t good for you. It literally takes minimal to no effort to hold grudges, tell lies, harbor unforgiveness, eat unhealthy, refuse to exercise, cheat yourself and others, argue, fight, make excuses, be unfaithful, say and do things you shouldn’t, blame others, be lazy, procrastinate, doubt, quit, dwell on the past, waste time and money, etc.
On the other hand, you generally have to struggle, wrestle and persuade yourself to do most anything that is considered “right”, “healthy”, or adds value to your life. It is during these times you typically make the most excuses; find the most reasons or justifications NOT to do what is necessary or required. Why does it take the most effort to let things go, always tell the truth, forgive, eat healthy, diet, exercise, be true to yourself and others, communicate effectively and live peaceably, be faithful, apologize, commit to your commitments, take responsibility for yourself and your actions, get things done and on time, exercise faith, persevere, get past your past, be good managers of time and money, etc.? Because the human response in most instances is to take the easy way out. For this reason, you must learn to use the natural barometer God has given all of us to improve our decision-making.
When faced with a decision in life, evaluate your natural responses FIRST. Whatever comes easiest, is the path of least resistance, or requires little to no work on your part is generally NOT the direction you should take. However, if it requires self-discipline, hard work, character, commitment, principles, morals, ethics, resiliency, or any of the qualities that suggest personal growth and development, then that is a clear indication of what is best for you. In other words, stop making things harder by choosing what is easier to you. TRUE success begins with realizing your “comfort zone” is really your “danger zone”.